Hi God. First of all, a lot of thanks for a relatively uneventful year on the negative side, and a year full of growth in the positive side. Time flies, we are enjoying it as best as we can while at the same time expecting the worse to come tomorrow.
Which brings me to my current issue, Yom Kippur. And atonement. And forgiveness.
We learn that if we pray, fast (which doesn’t bother me so much this year), give charity, etc., you will forgive us for the wrong things we did last year (I even heard that there are scholars who say that regardless of what we do, you’ll forgive us, like an annual reset… Interesting). Yet for thing we did wrong to others you are not the address. We need to ask forgiveness from our fellow humans in order to get heavenly forgiveness. And if someone ask for forgiveness, really meaning it, you must forgive him, otherwise the fault is on you.
And here is my problem. I can’t forgive you God. No matter how hard I try, I just can’t. For the pain my son has suffered, for the psychological weight carried by his sisters, for everything my family has endured. I just can’t. Last year I thought I could. But I was wrong.
And that is just my inner circle. There are so many wrongs happening in the world all the time, so many things that are just… wrong.
So I guess the fault’s on me. So there will be no atonement for me this year.
As we say in Hebrew: Basa…
But hey, since all is already lost, this year I’ll enjoy the day and have an awesome Yom Kippur party!
Just kidding 🙂